1.        It's easy to fall in love, but very few people know how to stay in love.

2.        Perhaps the best place to start is by learning to love yourself.

3.        Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

4.        Memorize your favorite poem.

5.        Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have, or sleep all you want.

6.        When you say “I love you”, mean it .

7.        When you say “I’m sorry”, look the person in the eye.

8.        Never laugh at anyone’s dreams.

9.        Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.

10.    In disagreement, fight fairly. No name-calling.

11.    Talk slowly but think quickly.

12.    When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask”,   why do you want to know?”

13.    Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

14.    Remember that not getting what is sometimes a stroke of luck.

15.    When you lose, don’t loss the lesson.

16.    Remember the three R’s: respect for self; respect for others; responsibility for all your actions.

17.     Don’t let little dispute injure a great friendship.

18.    When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

19.    Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

20.    Marry a man you love to talk to. As you go older, the conversational skills will be as important as any other.

21.    Spent some time alone.

22.    Open your arms to change but don’t let go of your values.

23.    Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

24.    Read more books and less watch TV.

25.    Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

26.    A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.

27.    In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Don’t bring up the lines.

28.    Read between the lines.

29.    Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality.

30.    Be gentle with the earth.

31.    Remember that your character is your destiny.

32.    Never interrupt when you are being flattered.

33.    Mind your own business.

34.    Don’t trust a man who doesn’t close his eyes when you kiss.

35.    Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.

36.    If you make a lot of money, put it in use. That is wealth’s greatest satisfaction.

37.    Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for other is greater than your need for each other.

38.    Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.

 

 

 

1.        It's easy to fall in love, but very few people know how to stay in love.

2.        Perhaps the best place to start is by learning to love yourself.

3.        Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

4.        Memorize your favorite poem.

5.        Don’t believe all you hear, spend all you have, or sleep all you want.

6.        When you say “I love you”, mean it .

7.        When you say “I’m sorry”, look the person in the eye.

8.        Never laugh at anyone’s dreams.

9.        Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.

10.    In disagreement, fight fairly. No name-calling.

11.    Talk slowly but think quickly.

12.    When someone asks you a question you don’t want to answer, smile and ask”,   why do you want to know?”

13.    Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

14.    Remember that not getting what is sometimes a stroke of luck.

15.    When you lose, don’t loss the lesson.

16.    Remember the three R’s: respect for self; respect for others; responsibility for all your actions.

17.     Don’t let little dispute injure a great friendship.

18.    When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

19.    Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

20.    Marry a man you love to talk to. As you go older, the conversational skills will be as important as any other.

21.    Spent some time alone.

22.    Open your arms to change but don’t let go of your values.

23.    Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

24.    Read more books and less watch TV.

25.    Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

26.    A loving atmosphere in your home is so important. Do all you can to create a tranquil harmonious home.

27.    In disagreements with loved ones, deal with the current situation. Don’t bring up the lines.

28.    Read between the lines.

29.    Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality.

30.    Be gentle with the earth.

31.    Remember that your character is your destiny.

32.    Never interrupt when you are being flattered.

33.    Mind your own business.

34.    Don’t trust a man who doesn’t close his eyes when you kiss.

35.    Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.

36.    If you make a lot of money, put it in use. That is wealth’s greatest satisfaction.

37.    Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for other is greater than your need for each other.

38.    Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.

 

 

 

三个月来我都没哭过，今天终于被学生打败了，狠狠的哭了一通，这样子的离别场面我还是第一次经历。

说俄罗斯人性格是粗中带细比较准确吧。平日里表情严肃，似乎对一切都莫不关系，也似乎对一切带着点抱怨和不满，但是你的用心和付出他们感受得到，他们请轻易不夸人，但是一旦说出口一定是真心的。

我一直都觉得自己的英语好过俄语，尽管俄语是第一外语，但是在大学时代成绩平平是默默无闻的学生。而在这里，我的潜力被激发出来了，我突然发现自己会说很多，政治、经济、文化、历史、宗教、体育我通通都能驾驭；偶尔溜出几句青年俚语让学生们惊奇不已。可能我真的是慢热型吧，反应不快但是却很扎实。

也就在今天我得到了学生们的认可：我的俄语很好，口音不明显；了解中俄两国文化，讲解简单明了；才艺、阅历丰富；我打破了中国市场商人们留给他们的不良形象。“认识你我们才算见过真正的中国人，我们到现在也不能信心眼前这个近乎童话般的女孩子只有25岁...”——伊戈尔（父亲的同龄人）。

我瞬时想起了父亲，那个我恨了十多年的人，一个严厉、残酷的完美主义者。25年地狱般的训练，打造了今天的我。来俄罗斯的半年里他只和我通过一次电话，寥寥几个字而已。此时此刻我想拿起话筒，但是除了“谢谢”我大概也说不出什么了...

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